I’ve been without a kin for over 6 months now and while it does get boring talking to myself in chat, I have to say I’ve survived pretty well without one. I’ve filled my hours working on crafting and doing as many solo quests as I can. I do occasionally group with a friend or two for the 3-mans or to knock out lower level quests. But lately I’ve been missing the raiding I used to do in my old kin and have been looking for a new one. What am I looking for in a kin? One that has fun and knows how to raid.
Herein lies the dilemma. I’m not a hardcore raider, but I do like having the bits of shiny for my toons. I don’t need to be the first to down the boss or have the instance on farm status, but a girl likes some swag, you know?
Then what are the options out there for the “casual raider”? Well, you can try to form a static group with people from different kins, but you might run into some issues with figuring out the loot rules as everyone will have a different take on how to divide the loot. Another option is to do PUGs, but honestly, when do PUGs turn out well for you? Almost never.
Seriously though, when looking for a group to raid with you can join a kin, but that doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be able to raid with them right off the bat. Many kins these days require you submit a raiding application and then have a visual inspection of your gear and stats. The problem with this is that if you’re new to raiding (whether it is in general or on a particular character) you might not have all your traits maxed out or have the best gear. With that in mind, it is a good idea to “shadow” a kin if you’re able to. By that I mean see if you can join them on a raid or just go questing with them and get a feel for how they play and how the officers treat their members. Also find out if there is a waiting list for raiding and if they have multiple static groups that raid. Larger kins do raids at different times to accommodate alts, so there might be room for you on their secondary raid group. Check out all your options and be well informed before jumping into a new kin. There’s nothing worse than being known as the person that is a ‘kin-hopper”. Once you’ve run with the potential new kin a few times you can better decide if you want to make it your home.
If this doesn’t work out for you, there is one last option and it is my favourite. Get two or three friends who will do quad boxing! Put all your toons on auto attack and auto follow and hit those raids! The only drawbacks to this idea are falling off cliffs when you drag that last toon around the corner or having your toon run into the insta-death water. But really, other than that it’s a fine idea. You have 4 times the chance at good loot, you get more coin and more XP. A win-win-win-win situation for everyone.
I purchased Everquest II on Steam a couple of weeks ago. I never really gave it a real shot (beyond the neutered trial), but for $5 I figured what the heck. While I can’t really afford to play more than one subscription-based MMORPG at a time, Everquest II does have some cool things going for it. Every so often I would see something that I thought LOTRO could benefit from copying to some degree.
One of these things pops up the second you enter the game world:
Everquest II’s Welcome Screen
As you can see, it contains server news, friends listings, a link to guild recruitment and more. I like the concept of this idea, although in the case of LOTRO certain things could be changed (for example, I’m hoping we never get a marketplace…).I think it helps tie things together and allows members (both new and old) to be fully aware of what’s going on around them.
I especially like the in-game guild recruitment tool:
Everquest II’s Guild Recruitment Screen
I really love this idea, particularly because it does what I think MMORPGs should do: it makes everything you need to do for a MMORPG accessible in-game. I find it frustrating that many MMORPGs rely on outside sources (official or not) to set up guilds/kinships and so forth. I think outside sources should be supplemental, not completely integral to the experience. I’d love to see something more robust in LOTRO that allowed Kinships to advertise themselves and gain new recruits in-game.
I don’t think it even necessarily has to go as far as Everquest II does. As an example, what if major areas had a bulletin board players could check out and see who’s recruiting. This could be by a helper NPC or even in its own little hall. I’ve seen this concept handled in various microtransaction-based MMORPGs like Shin Megami Tensei: Online to pretty good effect.
Does anyone have any input on this idea or have their own system they think would be better?
MMORPGs are social beasts, regardless of whether you’re questing with others or just using it as a glorified chat room. This is something I think a lot of people can easily forget, including me. It’s also something that took me a long time to accept.
While I still largely play solo due to the limited time I have in-game, I am not a solo-only player. For a long time I was, for reasons that honestly escape me. I avoided chatting. I avoided tells. I shied away from group quests, which meant that a lot of Epic Book quests lingered in my log. Many of them went gray twenty levels ago.
I suppose offline factors in my life contributed to this. I’m mostly referring to the fact that I was a shy person in my daily life. More than that, though, I just wanted to rush things without relying on other people.
Things have changed a bit and along the way I’ve been a little less closed off in these games.
Having experienced the extreme opposite, I have to say this to people: if you only play by yourself you are missing half of the experience. Do not deny yourself this component of the game.
I really recommend that everyone give a Kinship a try. There’s always some recruiting in the game and you can find even more on the official forums.
Almazar of LOTRO Reporter recently made a guild for LOTRO bloggers, podcasters and fans on the Brandywine server. I thought this was a great idea.
If you’re still trying to find a Kin or want a new one, give it a try. You can contact Almazar on Twitter or in-game to get started. Other officers you can PM in-game to join include:
Weaux
Issani
Sallenia
Goldensun
Sharrien
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